In my opinion, I believe the desire that some people have to beat their hypothetical children counters the claims that they “turned out fine”. People learn from their mistakes so if you always punish someone for their mistakes it causes them to not only be afraid to make mistakes but also afraid to try anything new in fear of failure. Failure and mistakes shouldn’t be punished, they are learning moments. I believe the desire to beat your hypothetical children is you displacing your fear , rage , and trauma you felt from the beatings you received onto your future child. Don’t beat your children, talk to them instead and see how that methods works out. Violence doesn’t solve everything.

As a black woman with a strong opinion, I’m constantly having to defend myself against allegations that I am too aggressive, bitter, or that I am always mad. I am nothing of the sort lovely. I am extremely assertive due to my passionate standpoints and knowing exactly what I want or mean. Calling me aggressive isn’t only disrespectful but it shows me that because I am a black woman with a voice you deem it as a threat and would rather mislabel me and try to ignore me rather than trying to hear where I am coming from. If I was a man I wouldn’t have to deal with the same repercussions. So before you ever open your mouth  to call any woman aggressive or anything else of the nature – don’t.

Hey guys,

So the other day I started getting these ideas to try creating a YouTube (i know everyone is a youtuber but that’s cause it’s F U N). I didn’t really know what I would talk about or do seeing as I don’t consider myself very creative or talented BUT that doesn’t mean I shouldn’t d try. I decided to base my YouTube off of things that interest me like fashion and I got some input to feature my personality on my YouTube as well so I don’t know I’m just kind of brainstorming at this point on what type of content I’ll produce if I ever stop being lazy and actually try my hand at this stuff. Also thank you for the person who told me to try a blog too , I think my blog might just be my ramblings. Almost like a finsta but I ain’t hiding ya dig. This could be fun or could be a terrible idea that leads to my own demise. Only way to know is to try it so I guess I will.

Welcome to my nonsensical thoughts and rambles !